One Man's Take: Something's Got to Give

A Pattern of Violence and the Need for Change

Luigi Mangione, Tyler Robinson, Dylann Roof, Colt Gray, and Thomas Matthew Crooks—these names are linked by a tragic commonality. Each is associated with a violent act that has left communities in shock and mourning. From the alleged murder of United Healthcare CEO Brian Thompson to the killing of Charlie Kirk, the mass shooting at a South Carolina church, and the attack on Apalachee High School, these incidents reflect a disturbing trend.

Since the Columbine shooting in 1999, there have been numerous similar cases across the country. Most of these individuals are young white men, typically between their mid-teens and late 20s, who often act alone. Many obtain their weapons through legal channels, such as family firearms or private sales. Despite the existence of strict gun laws in some states, violence continues to occur, as seen in Chicago, Illinois, where over 50 people were killed in shootings over a single weekend.

The root causes of these acts are complex. Mental illness and evil do exist, but the increasing frequency of such violence suggests a deeper issue. These individuals often feel isolated, angry, and disillusioned. Some believe that their only way to express their frustrations or make a statement is through violence. Whether targeting a public figure, a specific demographic, or someone they perceive as having wronged them, the motive is often rooted in personal pain and a sense of powerlessness.

In recent weeks, several high-profile incidents have occurred, including a shooting at the CDC headquarters in Atlanta and another school shooting in Colorado. These events highlight the growing concern about the safety of students and public figures. Unfortunately, some of these incidents receive minimal media attention, which can lead to a lack of awareness and response.

For many families, these tragedies hit close to home. One parent shared how their daughter, son-in-law, and grandchildren live near Apalachee High School, where a recent shooting claimed lives. A neighbor’s child was connected to one of the victims, and the community is still reeling from the loss. The legal process is ongoing, with both the father and son involved in the case.

When those who knew the shooters are interviewed, they often describe them as quiet, withdrawn individuals. They may not have shown obvious signs of instability, but there are often subtle clues—minor conflicts with authorities or unexplained behavioral issues. To an attentive observer, these signs might indicate a deeper problem that could escalate into violence.

There is also a growing concern about the role of technology in shaping young people's behavior. The shift toward screen-based interactions, whether through video games or virtual reality, may contribute to a disconnection from the real world. This isolation, combined with bullying and the influence of social media, can create an environment where anger and resentment fester.

Some individuals have expressed support for certain perpetrators, believing that their actions were justified. For example, some saw the killing of a UnitedHealthcare CEO as a response to high medical costs and insurance denials. Others felt relieved by the death of a controversial figure like Charlie Kirk, viewing it as a form of justice for his perceived views.

However, the solution lies not in targeting political groups but in addressing the mental health crisis among young men. There is a growing need for resources and support systems that can identify and assist those struggling with emotional and psychological challenges.

One survivor of the Columbine shooting has become a powerful voice for change. He speaks to students across the country, encouraging them to seek help when they are struggling with depression or suicidal thoughts. His message is clear: reaching out for support is not a sign of weakness but a step toward healing. Many students have later reached out to thank him for his guidance.

While there is no single solution to prevent all acts of violence, there are steps that can be taken. Parents and educators should focus on fostering strong connections with young people, encouraging them to spend less time in virtual worlds and more time engaging with their communities. Supporting mental health resources in schools and being vigilant about the well-being of children are essential.

Each of us can play a role in creating a safer, more compassionate society. By being kind, staying informed, and modeling positive behavior, we can help guide the next generation toward a healthier future.