Tom Brady Slams Ex-Wife Gisele Bündchen in Divorce Letter Over Parenting Claims

Tom Brady Reflects on Family, Football, and Parenting

Tom Brady has shared his thoughts on family life, football, and what it means to be a good parent. In a recent newsletter, he took a subtle jab at his ex-wife, Gisele Bündchen, while discussing how his dedication to the sport shaped his approach to fatherhood.

Brady and Bündchen married in 2009 and had two children together: Benjamin and Vivian. The couple eventually separated in 2022, with some reports suggesting that their differences over Brady’s career played a role in their split. Bündchen reportedly encouraged him to retire from football, citing concerns for his health and wanting more time with their family.

In his letter, Brady emphasized that his commitment to football was not just about personal success but also about providing for his children. He described his career as a way to set an example for them, teaching them the value of hard work, discipline, and perseverance.

“I think part of being a great father is being a great example of doing what it takes to take care of your family,” Brady wrote. “I chose to do it by playing football.”

He went on to explain that his focus on the sport, the hours of practice, and the moments of intense concentration were all part of his effort to show his children what it means to be committed to a goal. “By example, I taught them what it takes to be really good at your job, what it takes to follow through on commitments, and what it takes to be a great teammate,” he said.

Beyond Bedtime Stories and Homework

Brady also addressed the idea that being a great parent isn’t limited to traditional roles like reading bedtime stories or helping with homework. He suggested that there are many ways to be a good parent, and that success in one area doesn’t automatically make someone a perfect parent.

“Reading bedtime stories and helping them with homework are not the only ways to be a great parent,” he wrote. “And neither is winning Super Bowls or MVPs.”

He added that while being a great football player didn’t make him a great dad, the lessons he learned from the sport definitely influenced his parenting. “How I became a great player certainly had an impact—from showing up day in and day out, to doing whatever it took to get better, be successful, be a role model, and to provide.”

No One Is Perfect

In closing, Brady reminded readers that no one is perfect, and that mistakes are a natural part of life. He urged people to be kind to themselves and to stay committed to their goals, even when priorities shift over time.

“You won't be perfect. Nobody is,” he said. “You will fail and disappoint people along the way. But if you stay committed to your goals over time, even when your priorities shift (which they do at times), then you can be confident that you are living a life of integrity and purpose.”

Gisele Bündchen's Perspective

Bündchen, who has since moved on with her relationship with Joaquim Valente and welcomed a child with him earlier this year, had previously expressed concerns about Brady’s continued involvement in football. She told Elle in September 2022 that she wanted him to be more present for their children, especially given the physical nature of the sport.

“I have definitely had those conversations with him over and over again,” she said. “But ultimately, I feel that everybody has to make a decision that works for (them). He needs to follow his joy, too.”

Regrets Over the Netflix Roast

Brady has also spoken about his regrets regarding the Netflix roast that aired in 2022. He admitted that the show had a negative impact on his children, even though he enjoyed the humor and self-deprecation.

“It was tough on my kids for sure,” he said during an appearance on the "Impaulsive" podcast. “You don't know what to expect, and I love laughing at myself; it felt like I was in the locker room. And the harder people go at me, I'll actually love it.”

However, he acknowledged that the experience was difficult for his family. “There are some things as a parent you f-ck up and you don't realize until after. We're not perfect parents. There's no perfect manual for it, and you have to evaluate yourself as a parent too, all the time.”